Embracing the Unique Opportunity of Mentorship: A Coach's Perspective
Being a coach is much more than simply drawing up plays or winning games. It’s an incredible opportunity to shape the lives and character of young individuals, influencing their development far beyond the field. Kaz Kazadi, a coach I deeply respect, has spoken passionately about the weight and responsibility that come with this role. He likens it to being dropped into a vast universe with the task of guiding a select few individuals, not just in their athletic performance but in their journey toward becoming responsible adults. This metaphor perfectly illustrates the immense scope of a coach’s influence and the depth of the responsibility we carry.
Kazadi emphasizes teaching young men how to treat women with respect—a principle that goes beyond the game itself. He underscores the importance of instilling in young athletes the ability to acknowledge others' efforts and take full responsibility for their actions. While these lessons might seem unrelated to sports, they are critical in shaping well-rounded individuals who understand the broader significance of respect, gratitude, and accountability. These qualities, developed under the guidance of a coach like Kazadi, carry over into all aspects of life. Whether in relationships, careers, or future jobs, a coach is not just building athletes but developing citizens and future leaders.
I draw a parallel between coaching and parenting. Like parents, coaches need to maintain constant dialogue and reinforce values every day. Character-building is a long and challenging process that requires constant attention. The repeated lessons on discipline, respect, and responsibility are what truly shape an athlete’s character.
Kazadi also compares the role of a coach to being a shepherd, guiding his flock across a river. This speaks to his coaching philosophy—it's not about breaking down or belittling young athletes but about uplifting them, offering consistent support, and guiding them on their journey. It’s about being the first to encourage and light the way, even when the path is difficult.
Ultimately, Kazadi’s perspective encapsulates the essence of mentorship in sports and life. Being a coach is about far more than coaching a game. It’s an opportunity to mold young men and women into respectful and responsible adults, leaving a lasting impact that extends well beyond the field.
JOHN WELBOURN
John Welbourn is Founder/CEO of Power Athlete Inc and former NFL player. John was drafted with the 97th pick in 1999 NFL Draft and went on to be a starter for the Philadelphia Eagles from 1999-2003, appearing in 3 NFC Championship games, and started for the Kansas City Chiefs from 2004-2007. In 2008, he played with the New England Patriots until an injury ended his season early with him retiring in 2009. Over the course of his NFL career, John started over 100 games regular season games with 10 play-off appearances. He was a four-year letterman while playing football at the University of California at Berkeley. He graduated from the college of letters and sciences with a bachelor's degree in Rhetoric in 1998. And did his Masters work at the UC Berkeley School of Education in 1999. Since retiring from the NFL, John has worked extensively with the NFL, NHL, MLB, Olympic athletes, the US Army and Naval Special Warfare. He works as a consultant and advisor for several companies focused on improving human performance through training, nutrition and fitness-based technologies. John provides daily coaching and mentorship to over 5000 athletes around the world through his Power Athlete Coaches Network and training program delivery platform. Since in 2013, John has hosted a weekly podcast, Power Athlete Radio; a podcast dedicated to improving performance and connecting with some of the smartest people on the planet. With more than 700 episodes Power Athlete Radio has proven to be on the top podcasts in the strength and conditioning realm. John travels the world lecturing on performance and nutrition for Power Athlete and as a keynote speaker. John is a married father of three and resides in Austin, Texas. You can catch up with him at his personal blog, “Talk To Me Johnnie”, at Power Athlete or on social media @johnwelbourn.